money....people..relationship...

my sister arrived here sunday afternoon...we were suppose to meet with my high school friend at ayala..

been wanting to eat pizza so i brought her at ratsky where they are having eat all you can pizza and drink all you can on softdrinks or ice tea..

she arrived at bacolod from work in manila a couple of weeks or month ago, had some rest at home and decided to stay here with me in cebu and look for job...trying her luck in different call centers here :)

we had a lot of patching up to do and we talked for almost two hours at ratsky...

we talked about a lot of things and after seeing those girls who are into old foreigners at ratsky...until we discussed about this...

a lot of people right now are really into marrying somebody who is capable or stable enough to provide for the family...but there are some who wanted to really become millionaires..they do not care, who they are stepping into, who they are marrying and what they look like just to become rich..

i remembered one time my cousin said that she really wanted to have an overseas or a "seaman" as a husband. i told her that they cant be trusted(i'm not talking generally here) and its sad to live a life having someone you love away from you. and she told me, that's ok, i am receiving dollars anyway.

and i said, ok...huh!?! i mean its that easy for them? they married somebody to have someone beside you forever ayt? just like the song says:(changed some part lang ;) )

will make you smile, whenever your sad

carry you around if your arthritis is bad

all i wanna do is grow old with you..

i think people right now are just after the security and stability with their lives. but cant women excel and be successful and be stable and be rich by herself?

well, i guess it is just a matter of principle...a matter of determination, and i would add, a matter of luck.
ahaha...one is very lucky if he found someone they love and someone who loves them in return of course to be financially stable. someone who could give them all the luxuries in life...

as for me, i wanna be successful, and happy and contented. and i am going to do that not by looking for someone who is rich enough to provide all my needs and the luxuries in life but by having someone besideme and we will together build a future stable for our family ;)